Cultivating Girls’ Resilience
Kathy Weston has over 15 years experience as a social researcher with
a particular interest in parenting, education and family life. She
currently works as a motivational speaker and is passionate about
bridging the gap between academic research and parenting.
The number of out-of-school girls worldwide has dropped by 79
million in the last 20 years (UNICEF, 2020). Yet, as access to education
improves around the world for girls and young women, we have
another fight on our hands. There is a pressing need to recognise
girls’ resilience, sustain it and ensure that optimal conditions exist
for girls to thrive emotionally, academically and in the digital world.
We know that girls are generally less resilient than boys, and that
their mental and emotional wellbeing is declining, with suicide the
second leading cause of death among adolescent girls aged 15-19
worldwide (UNICEF).
In the UK, 30% of 15 year old girls experience high levels of emotional
difficulties, as opposed to 18% of boys, and for girls, unlike boys,
emotional problems increase with age (HBSC, 2020). Teen girls are
struggling with their body image (only 49% of 15 year old girls think
that their body is ‘about the right size’), rising anxiety, perfectionism
and the unique challenges that come with access to social media
(OFCOM, 2020). They worry more than boys, and can struggle to
communicate with parents, particularly with fathers. 50% of girls
feel significant academic pressure (only 30% of boys feel the same)
and girls are less likely to enjoy school. Girls also engage in fewer
behaviours that promote health. There appear to be universal
challenges associated with moving from girl to womanhood in the
21st Century.
Part and parcel of any educational programme worldwide, should be
a focus on resilience. What does it mean to be resilient? It means
being a ‘thinking scientist’ and staying curious. It means remaining
flexible and open to others’ perspectives. It means not repeating
things that you know don’t work, reframing challenge as opportunity
and maintaining a sense of optimism, humour and hope about the
future.
Cultivating positivity may seem challenging given the contexts
that some young women find themselves in, but we need to aim
high. All young people should understand that there is a proactive
component in resilience. We decide if we are resilient; paying careful
note to the times when we demonstrated it by overcoming difficulties
and barriers.
Agency is important when cultivating resilience. Young women
don’t need other people to fix or mollycoddle them. They need to
know that they have personal power and should strive to reach the
multiple options, choices and opportunities available to them. Our
role is to create pathways which enable them to do this. We must
ensure that they are conscious of the family and community values
that can psychologically anchor them, give them access to positive
role models, give effective praise when they demonstrate resilience
and provide them with opportunities to experience intellectual and
physical challenge. Girls also need to be conscious of the threats
to their own personal resilience. Self-awareness is key and should
be facilitated by as supportive a network as possible. Behind
every resilient girl, is someone saying “I believe in you, now give it
a go!”.
From Engage issue 20.
An article related to this topic is How does Body Confidence Affect Online Learning in Today’s Pandemic?
DR KATHY WESTON • October 13, 2021
This week while out and about in Hertfordshire and we visited the British Schools Museum. We discovered the first school opened by Joseph Lancaster, was known as the ‘Poor Childs Friend”, was in 1810. It was his lifelong mission that all children regardless of their circumstances, should benefit from an education. Apparently, Joseph heard a small girl say, “Oh that I could read!” and this inspired him to create a simple education system that eventually would benefit children across the world. Joseph was the tenth son of a poor man himself from South London. His aim was to offer free education for everyone. However, it would be 93 years before the U.K. government finally made education free for all. There are still many countries today where education is still not free to access and it is certainly not compulsory for primary and secondary age pupils. Joseph’s mission really resonates with that of the Foundation, to support access to education for all. We enjoyed our visit and appreciated the tour given by two of the Museum’s volunteers, Angela and Clare. They described some of the challenges faced in the early years of formal education and shared some of the rules that teachers and students had to abide by with us.
Sparks Bristol is a collaborative community project initially envisioned by The Global Goals Centre, (GGC) more of which below. A few years ago, GGC took over an empty Marks and Spencer store and that’s how Sparks was born. Sparks is a department store with a difference, co-created by Global Goals Centre and Artspace Lifespace. On the ground floor is a huge range of shops, installations, events and more. Upstairs is a hub for local artists, it offers affordable studios as well as rehearsal and performance space. The Global Goals Centre is a Bristol-based educational charity inspired by the Sustainable Development Goals. (SDGs). GGC believe the SDG’s or Global Goals as they are sometimes known, can be reached, with imaginative solutions and widespread education and engagement. They work with partners to promote creative solutions and deliver ground breaking projects that work towards these ambitious goals. The Steve Sinnott Foundation supported the Global Goals Centre with seed funding when it first started over 5 years ago. This month we went to visit them to see how they are getting on and we were taken aback by the volume of work they have achieved since they started. It is amazing to see how though working together with other local community groups it has grown into the vibrant centre it is today. All of the creative projects they host are linked to the SDGs. They cover topics that tackle poverty, education, climate change, fashion recycling and upcycling, to name a few.
Spring is definitely here, daffodils, blossom and crocuses are all basking in the bright sunshine. There is still a chill in the air in the shade but it's happening and all the seeds that were sown over the last few months are coming to fruition. At the Foundation, we have been planning the year ahead and our Positive Periods and Prevention of Gender Based Violence programmes got underway this weekend in Haiti and Ghana. These projects will have a long-lasting effect on the lives of the women and girls who take part: tackling the root causes of gender-based violence and enabling girls to attend school every day when they have their period, to feel safe at school and know how to take action when they are faced with violence. These are the first of many projects planned for the year ahead as we continue to work towards Education for All children everywhere.
